From: Cylvia Hayes

Sent: Wed Dec 03 22:09:29 2014

To: Jeff Cogen

Subject: Re: Hi

Importance: Normal

 

I'm pretty open on the 15th after 10am. What works for you?

 

C

 

Cylvia Hayes

CEO, 3EStrategies

541.280.5040

Cylvia@3estrategies.org

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From: Jeff Cogen <jeff.cogen@gmail.com>

Date: Wednesday, December 3, 2014 4:40 PM

To: Cylvia Hayes <cylvia@3estrategies.org>

Subject: Re: Hi

 

 

Cylvia,

The 15th might work, depending on the time. And I'm wide open on the morning of the 17th. We could also wait until after the holidays, if that's easier...

 

Jeff

 

On Wed, Dec 3, 2014 at 3:07 PM, Cylvia Hayes <cylvia@3estrategies.org> wrote:

 

Greetings Jeff,

 

I could meet in Salem on Dec. 9th or 15th. I could possible meet in Portand the morning of the 17th.

 

Thanks,

Cylvia

 

Cylvia Hayes

CEO, 3EStrategies

541.280.5040

Cylvia@3estrategies.org

Www.3estrategies.org

 

 

From: Jeff Cogen <jeff.cogen@gmail.com>

Date: Wednesday, December 3, 2014 1:55 PM

To: Cylvia Hayes <cylvia@3estrategies.org>

Subject: Re: Hi

 

 

Wow, Cylvia!

 

I'm so glad, and frankly impressed, to hear how you are dealing with what happened!

 

I'd love to get together and talk. Let me know what works for you...

 

Jeff

 

 

 

 

On Wed, Dec 3, 2014 at 12:54 PM, Cylvia Hayes <cylvia@3estrategies.org> wrote:

 

Greetings Jeff,

 

I so appreciate you reaching out to me. As you know you have to go through something like this to actually know what it feels like. It has been extremely intense but in truth I am doing great. I have chosen to use this as an unexpected sabbatical rather than just a black-balling. I am having some profound personal healing and spiritual deepening in this process. And I'm doing a lot of writing. Again, I really appreciate you reaching out. I would love to have coffee sometime and share our experiences.

 

Peace,

Cylvia

 

Cylvia Hayes

CEO, 3EStrategies

541.280.5040

Cylvia@3estrategies.org

Www.3estrategies.org

 

 

From: Jeff Cogen <jeff.cogen@gmail.com>

Date: Wednesday, December 3, 2014 11:20 AM

To: Cylvia Hayes <cylvia@3estrategies.org>

Subject: Hi

 

 

Hi Cylvia,

 

We've met, though we don't really know each other. I've been thinking about reaching out to you for a while, but thought it might be best to let the dust settle a bit.

 

I am so sorry for what the media put you through. As someone who has experienced the pain of public shaming via media feeding frenzy I wanted to reach out and see if I can support you in any way.

 

If you'd like to get together and talk I'd be happy to do that. If you don't wan't to do that now, no problem, but feel free to reach out at any time if you would like to.

 

In any event, I hope you are able to find healing and remember that the self righteous attacks you were subjected to ultimately says more about the sad state of our current political and media realities than it does about you.

 

Jeff

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